This is the last post in the “Our Attitudes” Series. If you’ve missed the others in this series, the links are at the end of this post for you to go and read.
Attitude Axiom #7: “Your Attitude is not automatically good because you are a religious person”
I cannot tell you how many times I have personally experienced this axiom. Some of the ugliest attitudes I’ve experienced in my life have been possessed by people who are following Christ. At times, you wonder how that could possibly be.
“A Poor Attitude takes us places we don’t want to go.”
Our Goal as followers of Christ is to not merely to be saved from Hell. God has saved us through His son so that we might walk with him, have a relationship with Him and become more like Him. We become like those we spend the most time with. “He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm.” – Prov. 13:20. If we want to develop an attitude like Christ has, we must spend time with Him. We must walk with Him daily. We must also surround ourselves with people who think and act like Christ. If we don’t, we will suffer harm. At the very least, our attitudes will suffer.
“We are either the masters or the victims of our attitudes. It is a matter of personal choice. Who we are today is the result of the choices we made yesterday. Tomorrow we will become what we choose today. To change means to choose to change.”
We can change our attitudes. We must become masters of our attitudes instead of allowing our attitudes to be masters of us. Here are some ways we can do that:
Choice #1: Evaluate your present attitude. Identify problem feelings, Identify problem behavior, Identify problem thinking, clarify the truth, secure commitment, plan and carry out your choice.
Choice #2: Realize that faith is stronger than fear.
Choice #3: Write a statement of purpose. Write specifically what you desire to accomplish each day. Verbalize to an encouraging friend what you want to accomplish each day. Take action on your goal each day.
Choice #4: Have the desire to change. No choice will determine the success of your attitude change more than desiring to change. Fall in love with the challenge of change and watch the desire to change grow. As long as we have acceptable options, we will not change. The truth is that most people are more comfortable with old problems than new solutions.
Choice #5: Live one day at a time.
Choice #6: Change your thought patterns.
Choice #7: Develop Good habits.
Choice #8: Continually choose to have a right attitude.
There’s much more to it than this. But this is a start. For those of us who suffer from bad attitudes, if we make these choices to change our attitude and develop a right attitude, our lives and the lives of those we touch will be dramatically different.
Let me leave you with this from Philippians 4:8-9:
“Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.”
Click on the links below to read the other 6 posts in the “Our Attitudes” series.
Attitude Axiom #6: Our Attitude can give us an uncommonly positive perspective.
Attitude Axiom #5: Our Attitude can turn our problems into blessings.
Attitude Axiom #4: Our attitude at the Beginning of a Task will affect its outcome more than anything else.
Attitude Axiom #3: Often our attitude is the only difference between success and failure.
Attitude Axiom #2: Our attitude determines our relationships.
Attitude Axiom # 1 – Our Attitude determines our approach to life.